my 22 year old daughter died a year ago this August...every day I ask God and her to forgive me for not being a better mother...as a single mom with 4 children I worked a lot and I think tried to make up for not having a complete family by perhaps not being strict enough about some things...because of me they probably are not as strong spiritually as they should be...spoiled them too much, and did not have severe enough consequences for breaking of rules and such...all of this would have given them stronger resistance against the evils of this world and maybe they would have been more self confident as well...