I really enjoyed and concur with your dialogue on love/like...you expressed it beautifully!...your description/analogy is on the mark...I too struggle daily with loving those (one in particular) who try my patience...on the home front, it is easier to truly love despite the fact that sometimes I do not like what family members do and as you said, I am greatly disappointed in myself as well...loving is hard work!! but it is worth it...thank you for your clear message...God bless you and keep you...