You have stated something I needed to hear! I give all praises to God the Most High! I recently petitioned and was granted divorce and custody of my daughter. I have been praying for the ex-husband ( co-parent)but I kept saying no matter what I do I don’t want to have nothing to do with him and that is really impossible due to our daughter is 8 and I have 10 yrs to go on a sentence of dealing with someone I loved a great deal at one time however I don’t like anymore and try to avoid as much as possible.
Today I was told by an ordained pastor that untill I forgive my co-parent and love him like God says I am to do I will continue to block my blessing.

I am not good at this love and like but I do know that Love is special and require one heart.