if you are thinking about a particular individual, it is important that you realize that to like a person because of the characteristics/values (patience, kindness, morals, etc) that they possess is necessary for a lasting relationship...as humans we sometimes mix the feelings of passion, attraction, desire of ’love’ with God’s definition of loving one another...though this is important, be careful when assessing what a person means to you...God will guide you and then you will make better decisions about special people in your life...I pray your your life will be filled with love and loving...