Hi Maria,
Are you my "Bobsey Twin" Maria? If so I say HI... If not I still say HI and want to say that you mentioned the AA phrase...it too is one of my favorites....also...I have learned so much from the "12 step" and Alanon...if everyone could live what the steps provide what a better World we would live in.
Also..the Serenity Prayer contains so much wisdom.Often in my life I say this little prayer and hope that God grants me these graces to faithfully trust and hope in Him and His Divine Providence.
God bless you and all you love.