You will definitely be in my prayers! I applaud you! you give me hope...I and my husband of 1 year are just beginning the process...it is scary for me...he seems more at ease with it...I had been divorced for 13 years, raised four children as a single parent (in the Catholic faith), and then I met this man who is also a Catholic and who wanted to marry...he and his mom do not believe in annulments...it has been hard not being able to receive the sacraments...he is now ready to work through the process...of course, I know that I should have waited until the process was over before marrying and I am ashamed that I did not...but I resolve to make it right with God...I already feel that He blesses this marriage but I know that we are not straight with church law and this is important to both of us...your letter is just what I needed, thank you...