Rick,
My godmother was a divorced woman many years ago. Her husband walked out on her and never returned. She then married a lovely man, in a legal ceremony, who treated her like a queen for more than forty years. Then, in God’s time, they went through all the necessary steps to re-enter the Church and got married in a religious Catholic ceremony. It was a wonderful thing. But as I said, it was in God’s time. Just put your duaghter and her beloved in God’s hands. Plain and simple. He does the rest of the job for you! Peace and blessings.....SS