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I have many vivid memories of my three-year stint in the Philippines as a literature teacher
at the Franciscan seminary college (Our Lady of the Angels) near Manila (1969-72). Among
these memories is that of visiting cemeteries with Filipino families on November 1, All
Saints Day. On that day, thousands and thousands of families come to the cemeteries to
honor ancestors and relatives who have died—and to enjoy festive picnics and family
reunions among the tombs.
Before the feast day itself, many have spruced up the tombs of their
close relatives, often decorating them with flowers and balloons. The cemeteries in the
Philippines, as a rule, do not consist of neat plots of grass with gravestones marking
the presence of the deceased buried there below the earth. In the Philippines, many of
the dead are laid to rest above ground in mausoleums (often white) of different sizes,
some large enough to house the remains of many persons in separate compartments. Those
who come to spend All Saints Day with their deceased relatives, therefore, gather together
in this kind of setting. Here they come to find a place to sit on ledges or in the niches
between the tombs. Here the families share food and stories or even games together in a
party-like atmosphere.
I still have a photo taken around 1970 that shows two young Filipino
men sitting on folding chairs outside a mausoleum (as large as a small house) engrossed
in a game of chess. In another photo, family members are sitting on the ground, their backs
against the walls of mausoleums. A young man, flanked by two smiling children, looks up
from a newspaper with other family members rounding out the circle. A pink portable radio
sits on a ledge nearby, no doubt playing popular tunes.
Many of us in the United States may be familiar with a similar custom,
celebrated in Mexico and known as the Day of the Dead (Dia de los Muertos). And
some Mexican-American communities in the United States also observe the custom. The tradition
goes back to pre-Christian times in Mexico, as well as in other Latin American countries.
The Aztec and Mayan peoples, for example, observed this tradition. The ancient Aztecs believed
that each year around July and August, the souls of the dead returned to visit their living
relatives and loved ones. Thus a popular practice developed in which the relatives of the
departed would go to the graves of their ancestors each year at this time, and—conscious
of the recurring cycle of life, death and rebirth—they would celebrate a joyful and
festive reunion with them, with an abundance of food and drink and good humor.
When the Spanish missionaries came to Mexico in the 16th century, they
encouraged their Christian converts to move the celebration to November 1 and 2 so it would
coincide with the Roman Catholic feasts of All Saints Day and All Souls Day.
Spanish Missionaries also came to the Philippines in the 16th Century.
No doubt a similar pattern took place there. Asian cultures, after all, are generally known
for the great reverence, love and respect they show toward their elders and ancestors.
At this point I want to introduce to you a Filipino Franciscan friar
who, at age 50, has been celebrating All Saints Day celebrations in his country for most
of his life. He is Father Nestor Manlangit, O.F.M., who, I’m proud to say, is a former
student of mine. Father Nestor was born near the city of Legaspi in Southern Luzon. Over
the last 23 years, he has done pastoral work in different parts of the Philippines. Hence,
he has surely experienced All Saints Day celebrations in a variety of settings. At present
he serves as assistant pastor at a well-known Manila parish, which is also a shrine of
St. Anthony, known as Santuario de San Antonio.
Nestor and I have been exchanging e-mails quite frequently in recent
weeks, and so it seemed quite natural for me to ask him to comment, as a native Filipino,
on the All Saints Day celebrations (in his country’s cemeteries). Here are some comments
he was very willing to share with the readers of Friar Jack’s E-spirations:
“The joyful and celebratory spirit that marks our own version of
the ‘Day of the Dead’ is a nationwide phenomenon. Here it is celebrated on
November 1 instead of November 2 (All Souls Day). I know of several attempts of well-known
pastors to try to ‘correct’ the practicethat is, to get people to observe
November 2 as the real ‘All Souls Day’ or ‘Day of the Dead,’ but
the practice has stuck on November 1. Old folks say it’s always been that way, so
I guess it’s a national tradition that spans decades, if not centuries!
“The way it looks now,” Father Nestor continues, “it
looks like we have two days instead of one to celebrate the Day of the Dead, although the
government only recognizes November 1 as the national holiday (in accord with the popular
practice). As a priest, I have sort of adopted this practice by linking the commemoration
of our departed brothers and sisters with the Church’s teaching on the Communion
of Saints and on our hope for the Resurrection. Consciously or unconsciously, we all look
forward to being saints ourselves. This same hope is what makes us pray that our dear departed
relatives and friends will finally experience the fullness of God’s kingdom and become
saints as well.”
I shared with Nestor my impression that that way the Filipinos spent
their day partying and celebrating at the cemetery suggested to me that the Filipinos’ way
of visiting deceased relatives was more joyful—and less somberthan it might
be for some Americans in the United States. The gathering of Filipinos around their tombs
in a festive, picnic-like atmosphere, I observed, seemed the opposite of morbid or gloomy.
Rather, I said, “Filipinos seemed to feel right at home with those who have passed
on before them.”
This was Nestor’s response to my observations: “You have
to give it to the Filipino joviality and sense of fun to always find something to celebrate
even in the most somber or gloomy situations. Any big gathering of relatives could be such
an occasion, be it a gathering for a baptism, wedding, funeral or, in this case, honoring
the dead. Filipino families being quite extended, these gatherings are unique occasions
where one meets 'long lost kin' and gets updated on one another’s life. The continuing
bond of the living is extended to the dead relatives and it is renewed on this yearly occasion.
Beyond praying for our beloved dead, we gather to renew family relationships with them.
We thereby assure ourselves and them that they are not forgotten or apart from us even
though we move on with our lives. Thus it is an occasion for celebration.”
We should note, continues Father Nestor, “that in many cases people
who bring food to the tombs don’t just bring food for their own consumption. They
also set aside portions as offerings for the dead, believing that somehow the dead still
have a way of partaking in the earthly feast. This reinforces a bit your own perception
that Filipinos seem ‘to feel right at home with those who have passed on before us.’ They
actually believe that the departed are right there sharing the feast with them! And for
those who might have missed the cemetery party, some even leave food, exclusively for the
departed, at small altars in their homes.”
Father Nestor’s discussion of the importance of food in these joyful
gatherings at the tomb prompts me to think about the importance of food in the Resurrection
stories of Jesus and of the joyful nature of the risen Jesus’ visits or encounters
with his disciples.
Recall, for example, how Jesus sits down and breaks bread with his two
disciples at the village of Emmaus (Luke 24:30). The disciples’ eyes are suddenly
opened to the full, joyful meaning of the Resurrection. Later when Jesus appears to the
incredulous disciples in the upper room in Jerusalem, he asks, “Have you anything
here to eat?” (Luke 24:31) They give him a piece of baked fish, which he eats before
them! And who can forget the breakfast of bread and fish that Jesusback from the
deadgrilled for seven disciples over a charcoal fire and shared with them at the
Sea of Galilee? (See John 21:9-14). All of this has meaning, of course, for our Eucharistic
celebrations.
May the insights gained here—thanks to Father Nestor and the customs
of our brothers and sisters in the Philippines and in Mexico—enrich our belief in
the Communion of Saints and our celebration of the upcoming feasts of All Saints Day and
All Souls Day!
[You can read about other aspects of Friar Jacks time in the Philippines
in his spiritual autobiography, Lights:
Revelations of Gods Goodness.]
Readers
respond to Friar Jims Catechism
Quiz: Sacramentals.
Dear Friar Jim: I have a relative who is very “into” some
things that I don’t understand. Among other things, she thinks you should bury
a statue of St. Joseph in
your yard to help sell your house. This seems more like voodoo than Christianity. How
is this explained? Jack
Dear Jack: I would agree with you. It does seem superstitious,
though perhaps we can allow for personal difference when it comes to popular piety. In
the best cases, people pray for the well-being of their families at this important time
of moving and ask St. Joseph, patron of fathers, to pray with them. But sometimes planting
a statue is done for superstitious reasons. You can learn lots more about all of this in St.
Joseph, My Real Estate Agent, by Stephen J. Binz. Friar Jim
Dear Friar Jim: You mentioned in your recent newsletter that we make
the Sign of the Cross before the reading of the Gospel. This has always been my familys
question: Do all people need to make the Sign of the Cross or only the person declaring
the Gospel? In our parish, some people do some dont, and I want to know what to tell
my kids. Thank You. Claudette
Dear Claudette: Those hearing the Gospel should also sign themselves
since it is a prayer requesting the Gospel to be a guide for their lives. Friar Jim
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