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Fitting my family around the supper table was a challenge
as I was growing up, especially when all eight children and my parents were together for
a meal. Chairs took up too much space in our kitchen, so we eventually resorted to a picnic
table with detached benches. My place at that table was at the end of a bench, near one
of the table corners. As we kids grew in size, there was less space for me on the bench,
and I got shifted around the corner. What’s important is that I had a place at the
table. We all had a place at the table. That’s what mattered most.
Today my own family (husband, daughter and myself) is very small by
comparison. Our table has extra places, and we each have a chair. One of the things we
most enjoy is opening our home to friends and family and sharing meals around our table.
Often we will clear off the placemats and salt and pepper shakers and play games at the
table. It is an important place of gathering and togetherness.
As our Church family gathers for the celebration of the Eucharist,
we are seated around a table as well. As we welcome First Communicants to the table for
the first time, we gladly shift to make room for them at the table of the Lord. We invite
them to share in the closeness we experience with Jesus and with the Church community as
a result of participating in this most special of meals.
We help them whet their appetites for this personal closeness with
Jesus and for connection with the community when we show them how important these relationships
are in our own lives. Our modeling helps make First Eucharist much more than an event that
becomes a treasured memory. If the adults in a child’s life truly celebrate Eucharist,
then that child’s First Eucharist is more likely to be just the first in a lifetime
of meaningful encounters with the Body of Christ.
An important element in any children’s sacramental preparation
process is the parent meeting(s). The video program First
Communion: Taking a Place at the Table was designed with parent meetings in mind.
It is now available on DVD. This four-segment program (story, witness, teaching and music
video) offers parents a basic foundation as they help their children approach the eucharistic
table for the first time. Click here ( RealMedia | Windows
Media) to see a video clip from the story segment of this program. Kimberly is preparing
to celebrate First Eucharist. In her preparation, she learns that saying “Amen” as
she receives Communion means that it should make a difference in how she treats others.
This leads to a touching reconciliation with her granddad. Parents and children can view
this story separately or together. You can see another clip from this program, from the
teaching segment, by clicking here ( RealMedia | Windows
Media).
Those looking for a more comprehensive approach to parent formation
on Eucharist will find the companion videos Eucharist:
Celebrating Christ Present and A
Walk Through the Mass especially helpful. The program planner Experience
Christ Present helps catechetical leaders use segments from the three Catholic
Update Videos mentioned above in a variety of approaches to parent and catechist formation
on Eucharist.
Video programs about the Eucharist for children that are also available
on DVD include:
The
Mass for Children and Young People which includes:
- The Mass for Older Children (Grades 4-8, 13 min)
- Mass for Young Children: Parts 1 and 2 (Grades 1-3, 9-10 min each)
- Why Do We Go to Mass on Sunday? (Grades 2-6, 12 min)
Grandma’s
Bread and El Pan de la Abuelita (Primary-Adult, 18 min each)
A
Child’s View of Community (Grades 1-4, 10 min)
Sacraments,
Program Five: We Feed: Eucharist (Grades 5-8, 12 min)
First Eucharist is an important time to connect with and form both
the children preparing for this celebration and their parents. It’s an opportunity
for evangelization and the last chance some parents will give us. So, make the most of
this contact. Make sure your presentations are fresh and engaging but not too didactic.
Give them dates, times, picture information, dress recommendations, etc., as a handout—and
reach your hand out to your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ so that they know they
have a place at the table and what that can mean in their everyday lives.
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