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January 9, 2008
 
Welcome to Faith Formation Update, a free monthly e-newsletter for catechetical leaders with a focus on parish catechesis beyond textbooks and classrooms. I'm Jeanne Hunt. In each issue I offer a brief starter and my "Every Family" column. My co-worker and fellow religious educator Joan McKamey offers media resources and ideas in her "Seen and Heard" column. Our co-worker Chuck Blankenship suggests other faith formation resources for adults from St. Anthony Messenger Press in his column, "Sowing Sampler." Finally, we encourage YOU to share views and program ideas about this month's topic on our online bulletin board, "Faith Formation Forum." In these days of great feasting and celebration of incarnation we invite you to sit down with us at our winter table of talk and reflection on that ancient symbol of the incarnation, the table, where we meet our Christ.
—Jeanne Hunt

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Gathered Around the Table
 
 
The table is central to Catholic rituals. It is at the altar that the great meal, Eucharist, occurs. As we pass on the faith to our children, it is paramount that they understand the sacred nature of that table and every table in their lives. The kitchen table, the dining room table and even the coffee table have a presence all their own in our homes. It is at table that we nourish both our bodies and our souls. Sitting together sharing a hearty winter meal is the perfect place to share the matters of the spirit. As we look at the Scriptures we see, again and again, that Jesus did his best work at mealtimes. In fact, it was when he broke bread and blessed it that the Emmaus couple finally recognized him. That tells us that it was a familiar sight and that Jesus put great stock in table time. So, too, should we put emphasis on the ritual and manner of the way we celebrate life and growth at all our tables, sacred and secular. Tables have a holiness all their own.
 
     
 
 
Saving a Place for Jesus at the Table
 
 
In the next few months, catechists begin in earnest to prepare second grade children for their First Eucharist. The parent meetings, Jesus retreat days and practices will fill our calendars. However, if we simply tend to the calendar dates and forget the deeper issue of readiness, catechesis and evangelization, we fall short of this graced moment.
This is a time when many young parents bring their child to sacramental preparation. These parents are ready to understand and embrace the significance of Eucharist. We teach them as well as their child. Through the connection between the common symbol of the family table as a place where we meet Jesus and the ritual table of the assembly, families begin to understand that Jesus is not just meant for one hour on Sunday. Jesus is the ever-present person in our lives throughout each day and in all that we do. It is important that this connection be demonstrated in our catechesis. When we integrate common experiences with the sacred experience of Eucharist, the mystery is approachable.
We need to encourage young families to dust off the dinning room table and to begin again to eat meals there. Too many fast-food meals and family-room buffets have polluted our culture’s understanding of table time. I encourage everyone to start eating at a table, sharing the news of the day and even breaking a piece of bread from a loaf and passing it to the next person. This simple gesture underscores the actions the child sees in church.  As the family sits together, prays together and eats together, the meaning of the symbolic eucharistic table will make sense. But without the demonstration of table habits at home, there is no way for children (or their parents) to find this deeper meaning. Catechesis requires helping families connect with our liturgy and rituals. For so many, it is not what they hear but, rather, what they do and see that teaches.
 When we are aware of the sacred in our ordinary lives, we begin to understand that Jesus Christ abides with us. It is the task of Catholic parents to provide a home where Christ dwells. Then, the connection with Eucharist will happen. In his book Jesus in the House, Allan F. Wright asks, “How much different would homes be today if we taught, forgave, healed and shared meals as Jesus did?” The question intimates that our homes are the first place we learn about Jesus and begin a relationship with him. This book is an excellent resource for parents, small groups, catechists or those who want to bring a vital presence of Christ into their everyday lives.
As catechists, the first task in Eucharist sacramental preparation is to evangelize the families. This evangelization can begin at the family table. We can know the facts of faith but never hunger for the real presence of Jesus in the Eucharist. This is a teaching moment. Jesus is waiting at his place at the family table to become a real part of our children’s lives.
 
     
 
 
Video Updates on First Eucharist
 
 
Fitting my family around the supper table was a challenge as I was growing up, especially when all eight children and my parents were together for a meal. Chairs took up too much space in our kitchen, so we eventually resorted to a picnic table with detached benches. My place at that table was at the end of a bench, near one of the table corners. As we kids grew in size, there was less space for me on the bench, and I got shifted around the corner. What’s important is that I had a place at the table. We all had a place at the table. That’s what mattered most.
Today my own family (husband, daughter and myself) is very small by comparison. Our table has extra places, and we each have a chair. One of the things we most enjoy is opening our home to friends and family and sharing meals around our table. Often we will clear off the placemats and salt and pepper shakers and play games at the table. It is an important place of gathering and togetherness.
As our Church family gathers for the celebration of the Eucharist, we are seated around a table as well. As we welcome First Communicants to the table for the first time, we gladly shift to make room for them at the table of the Lord. We invite them to share in the closeness we experience with Jesus and with the Church community as a result of participating in this most special of meals. 
We help them whet their appetites for this personal closeness with Jesus and for connection with the community when we show them how important these relationships are in our own lives. Our modeling helps make First Eucharist much more than an event that becomes a treasured memory. If the adults in a child’s life truly celebrate Eucharist, then that child’s First Eucharist is more likely to be just the first in a lifetime of meaningful encounters with the Body of Christ.
An important element in any children’s sacramental preparation process is the parent meeting(s). The video program First Communion: Taking a Place at the Table was designed with parent meetings in mind. It is now available on DVD. This four-segment program (story, witness, teaching and music video) offers parents a basic foundation as they help their children approach the eucharistic table for the first time. Click here (RealMedia | Windows Media) to see a video clip from the story segment of this program. Kimberly is preparing to celebrate First Eucharist. In her preparation, she learns that saying “Amen” as she receives Communion means that it should make a difference in how she treats others. This leads to a touching reconciliation with her granddad. Parents and children can view this story separately or together. You can see another clip from this program, from the teaching segment, by clicking here (RealMedia | Windows Media).
Those looking for a more comprehensive approach to parent formation on Eucharist will find the companion videos Eucharist: Celebrating Christ Present and A Walk Through the Mass especially helpful. The program planner Experience Christ Present helps catechetical leaders use segments from the three Catholic Update Videos mentioned above in a variety of approaches to parent and catechist formation on Eucharist.
Video programs about the Eucharist for children that are also available on DVD include:
  • The Mass for Children and Young People which includes:
    • The Mass for Older Children (Grades 4-8, 13 min)
    • Mass for Young Children: Parts 1 and 2 (Grades 1-3, 9-10 min each)
    • Why Do We Go to Mass on Sunday? (Grades 2-6, 12 min)
  • Grandma’s Bread and El Pan de la Abuelita (Primary-Adult, 18 min each)
  • A Child’s View of Community (Grades 1-4, 10 min)
  • Sacraments, Program Five: We Feed: Eucharist (Grades 5-8, 12 min)
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    First Eucharist is an important time to connect with and form both the children preparing for this celebration and their parents. It’s an opportunity for evangelization and the last chance some parents will give us. So, make the most of this contact. Make sure your presentations are fresh and engaging but not too didactic. Give them dates, times, picture information, dress recommendations, etc., as a handout—and reach your hand out to your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ so that they know they have a place at the table and what that can mean in their everyday lives.
     
         
     
    Scripture as Spirituality
     
     
    Scripture makes many of us Catholics nervous. For much of our history, we were not particularly encouraged to read much Scripture, aside from the limited selection of Gospel stories, Pauline letters and Hebrew Scripture that were included in the Roman Missal. But with the new lectionary since Vatican II, along with the encouragement of Holy Mother Church, Catholics are now beginning to look to the Bible for more spiritual nourishment.
    Richard Rohr, in his latest book Things Hidden: Scripture as Spirituality, explores the central themes of Scripture to help us discover new, vital meaning and relevance in these ancient texts. In his own inimitable style, Rohr uncovers what the Bible says about morality, power, wisdom and the generosity of God in a way that demands a life-changing response from believers. His insights offer a Christian vision of abundance, grace and joy to counteract a world filled with scarcity, judgment and fear—a vision that can revolutionize how we relate to ourselves, others and the world. As Fr. Rohr explains in his introduction, “I offer these reflections to again unite what should never have been separated: sacred Scripture and Christian spirituality.”
     
         
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