"I knew as a mother that there was
something wrong with Jenny,"
said Eve. (Names have been
changed to protect people's privacy.)
Eve and her husband adopted Jenny,
who was an extremely active child.
When she reached puberty, Jenny's
behavior became unusual. Eve, a nurse,
pressed medical professionals for a diagnosis.
A psychiatrist finally diagnosed
Jenny with bipolar disorder.
At 16 Jenny was put on lithium.
Jenny's behavior was disturbing. She
was promiscuous and spent money
"like a princess."
Jenny had many car accidents because
she was not responsible. She did
not consistently take her medicine, especially
on weekends, because it made
her feel groggy and confused.
Life was a challenge for Jenny and
her family. But she moved to California,
married and had a son. Then at 25 she
committed suicide. Eve discovered that
her daughter had signed all the medical
releases and legal papers so Eve could
care for her three-year-old grandson.
Eve and her husband adopted Jimmy,
now 16. He attends a local Catholic
high school, and has been diagnosed
with bipolar disorder, ADHD (Attention
Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and
a personality disorder. He seems to be
doing well if he takes his medicine.
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Mental Illness Is an Illness
When someone is diagnosed with cancer
or heart disease, we offer our concern
and prayers for them and accept it
as a reality of life. We feel comfortable
talking about it and might ask for support
and prayers.
It is a different story when someone
we know is diagnosed with a mental illness
such as bipolar disorder, schizophrenia
or depression. People are less
inclined to share that diagnosis with
others. Mental illness brings along with
it negative stereotypes and stigmas.
God is not threatened by differences.
It's we who are.
—Richard Rohr, O.F.M. |
People misunderstand mental illness.
I know I have. There is shame associated
with it and there should not be. The
symptoms of mental illness are very
real and difficult to control with medications
and therapies. A person with
mental illness can experience major
changes in personality, have difficulty
functioning socially or coping with
everyday problems, or suffer from disturbing
thoughts or feelings.
According to the National Institute
of Mental Health, mental disorders are
common. An estimated 26.2 percent
of Americans ages 18 and older—about
one in four adults—suffer from a diagnosable
mental disorder in a given year.
God's Image
As Christians, we speak of respecting
all life but, in reality, we often neglect
people with mental illness. Catholic
social teaching challenges us to be open
and supportive to them and their families.
Resources
Web
www.usccb.org/prolife/programs/rlp/
Gillpamphlet.pdf. This article, "The Person
With Mental Illness: Bearing God's Image,"
by the Rev. Richard Gill, L.C., is published by
the United States Conference of Catholic
Bishops.
Books
With Cords of Compassion: Ministry With
Persons Affected by Mental Illness, edited
by Rev. Jeffrey A. Hosmer, Ruth Drescher,
L.S.W., and Eric Engel. Published in 1992.
United Mental Health, Inc., PHSDS Building
Third Floor, 1945 Fifth Avenue, Pittsburgh,
PA 15219-5543, phone 412-391-3810. |
Addressing an international conference
sponsored by the Pontifical
Council for Pastoral Assistance to
Health-Care Workers in November
1996, Pope John Paul II said: "Whoever
suffers from mental illness 'always'
bears God's image and likeness in themselves,
as does every human being. In
addition, they 'always' have the inalienable
right not only to be considered as
an image of God and therefore a person,
but also to be treated as such."
Families with relatives who have
mental illness find their religious faith
challenged. They live with uncertainty
and anxiety, and can move from crisis
to crisis. Families might best cope with
mental illness with acceptance, offering
their loved one serenity, courage and
wisdom.
The seventh-century St. Dymphna
(pronounced Dimf-nah) is the Church's
patron saint of people with mental illness
or emotional disorders. May we remember
all the Jennys and Jimmys—and caregivers like Eve—and pray that
we may be a source of comfort and
support for them.
Sister Karen Zielinski,
O.S.F., was director of communications
for the Sisters of
St. Francis of Sylvania, Ohio,
from 1991 to 2008. She is
now director of Canticle Studio, for products
which focus on spirituality and health. She
can be contacted at whollyhealthy@
AmericanCatholic.org. |