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Daily Catholic Question

What is "closure" after a traumatic experience?

Getting over what has happened to you is important. This is called "closure." You need to close this chapter in your life before you can move on. Here are some simple things you can do to help put the past to rest.

1. Make a book of memories about your experience, exploring the things you learned. You can learn from everything, pleasant or painful.

2. If you're unable to say what you'd like to, face-to-face with someone, write the person a letter (you don't have to actually send it).

3. Write down what you're angry about, and then tear the paper to shreds, focusing all your stress, anger and frustration on that paper.

4. Dedicate an entire evening to thinking through every aspect of what's bothering you. Allow yourself to scream, cry, pray--just get it all out. Humor yourself!

5. If your family, youth group or class experiences the loss of a loved one, make a memorial collage of what that person liked and what you liked about him or her. You could also plant a tree or make a donation to charity in that person's memory.


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Monday, September 2, 2013
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Dominic of Silos: It’s not the founder of the Dominicans we honor today, but there’s a poignant story that connects both Dominics. 
<p>Our saint today, Dominic of Silos, was born in Spain around the year 1000 into a peasant family. As a young boy he spent time in the fields, where he welcomed the solitude. He became a Benedictine priest and served in numerous leadership positions. Following a dispute with the king over property, Dominic and two other monks were exiled. They established a new monastery in what at first seemed an unpromising location. Under Dominic’s leadership, however, it became one of the most famous houses in Spain. Many healings were reported there. </p><p>About 100 years after Dominic’s death, a young woman made a pilgrimage to his tomb. There Dominic of Silos appeared to her and assured her that she would bear another son. The woman was Joan of Aza, and the son she bore grew up to be the "other" Dominic—the one who founded the Dominicans. </p><p>For many years thereafter, the staff used by St. Dominic of Silos was brought to the royal palace whenever a queen of Spain was in labor. That practice ended in 1931.</p> American Catholic Blog In a short time we will celebrate the fact that God has come to us so that we can be with him now and forever. The birth of the Son fulfills God’s longing to speak to us as one friend speaks to another.

 
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